According toGwyneth Paltrow, motherhood should be a judge-free zone.In a new episode of the YouTube seriesCoach Conversations, Paltrow andCiarasat down for a candid discussion about motherhood, during which the Goop founder, 48, urged mothers to be supportive of one another.Paltrow, who shares daughterApple, 16, and sonMoses, 15, with exChris Martin,and is stepmom to husbandBrad Falchuk’s two teenage children, said it’s important “not to judge other mothers in their process and their decisions.““We have to be supportive of each other,” theShallow Halactress continues.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.“I think there’s this tendency sometimes, ‘Did you breastfeed? Did you not breastfeed? Are you doing sleep training, are you not?’ People get so triggered and so opinionated and I think it’s so important to understand that all moms are doing their best,” Paltrow adds. “Advice, while it can be wonderful if someone asks you for it, it’s different than judgment.“Ciara, who shares sonWin Harrison, 9 months, and daughterSienna Princess, 4 withRussell Wilson, as well as 6-year-old sonFuture Zahirwith ex-fiancé, rapperFuture, agreed with Paltrow’s statement.“I think sometimes it’s the motherly instinct in us that we want to help,” the singer, 35, replied. “We want to tell someone how we did things, or how they could do things, but like you say we all have our own ways of how we mother our kids, and that’s what makes us all uniquely us.“Gwyneth Paltrow/ instagramRELATED VIDEO: Ciara Shares How She and Russell Wilson Are Teaching Their Kids to Give Back: ‘Lead By Example’Paltrow recently opened up about herexperience becoming a stepmotherafter marrying Falchuk in 2018.Speaking toGabrielle Unionon a March episode ofThe goop Podcast, Paltrow admitted that she initially had “no idea” what to do.“I have two beautiful stepchildren, who are the same age as mine,” Paltrow began. “It’s funny because when I became a stepmother, when I knew I was going to become a stepmother, I was like, ‘S—, I have no idea how to do this. There’s nothing to read. What do I do? Where do I step in? Where do I not? Like, how do I do this?’ ““It’s been a really interesting challenge for me and I love them,” she continued, adding, “I’ve learned so much about myself through the process.”
According toGwyneth Paltrow, motherhood should be a judge-free zone.
In a new episode of the YouTube seriesCoach Conversations, Paltrow andCiarasat down for a candid discussion about motherhood, during which the Goop founder, 48, urged mothers to be supportive of one another.
Paltrow, who shares daughterApple, 16, and sonMoses, 15, with exChris Martin,and is stepmom to husbandBrad Falchuk’s two teenage children, said it’s important “not to judge other mothers in their process and their decisions.”
“We have to be supportive of each other,” theShallow Halactress continues.
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“I think there’s this tendency sometimes, ‘Did you breastfeed? Did you not breastfeed? Are you doing sleep training, are you not?’ People get so triggered and so opinionated and I think it’s so important to understand that all moms are doing their best,” Paltrow adds. “Advice, while it can be wonderful if someone asks you for it, it’s different than judgment.”
Ciara, who shares sonWin Harrison, 9 months, and daughterSienna Princess, 4 withRussell Wilson, as well as 6-year-old sonFuture Zahirwith ex-fiancé, rapperFuture, agreed with Paltrow’s statement.
“I think sometimes it’s the motherly instinct in us that we want to help,” the singer, 35, replied. “We want to tell someone how we did things, or how they could do things, but like you say we all have our own ways of how we mother our kids, and that’s what makes us all uniquely us.”
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RELATED VIDEO: Ciara Shares How She and Russell Wilson Are Teaching Their Kids to Give Back: ‘Lead By Example’
Paltrow recently opened up about herexperience becoming a stepmotherafter marrying Falchuk in 2018.
Speaking toGabrielle Unionon a March episode ofThe goop Podcast, Paltrow admitted that she initially had “no idea” what to do.
“I have two beautiful stepchildren, who are the same age as mine,” Paltrow began. “It’s funny because when I became a stepmother, when I knew I was going to become a stepmother, I was like, ‘S—, I have no idea how to do this. There’s nothing to read. What do I do? Where do I step in? Where do I not? Like, how do I do this?’ "
“It’s been a really interesting challenge for me and I love them,” she continued, adding, “I’ve learned so much about myself through the process.”
source: people.com
